Why Girls Like Guys and Vice Versa

那天看chicken soup的时候看到这篇文章

原本只有Why guys like girls的文章

刚刚上网查了一下

原来还有Why girls like guys的版本

觉得这两篇都很有它的真实性一下

纯粹分享。。。。

PS: 很长可是个人觉得很值得一看。。。

Well here are a few reasons that girls like guys
1. The way they always wear their favorite cologne (which happens to be the
one that you bought them for their birthday)
2. The way the run their hands through out hair
3. The way that they look at you and you want to die right then and there
4. The way that they casually put their arms around you
5. The way that they kiss away your tears
6. …and the way that they then get mad at how they can’t make your problem go
away
7. The way they show off around their friends, even though you both know that
you would love them even if they missed a basket or two
8. How there eyes light up at the result of 3 hours of preparing for your date
9. How they always know just what to say to make you blush
10. How they sometimes think that they know just what to say to make you feel
better, even if you think that it is the worst thing that they could say
11. The way they hold you close when you are cold
12. How they look at you when your mad at them and all your anger melts away
13. How they always smile when you are together
14. The way that they always let you win any game that you play together
15. … and then when you point that out to them they pretend to not know what
you are talking about
16. The way that they smile at you
17. The way that you feel when they call to apologize after you had a big fight
18. The way that they say I love you
19. The way that they say I love you in front of their friends
20. The way that they touch and hold you so gently, like they are afraid that they
will break you
21. The way that they kiss you
22. The way that they open their arms to you when you are crying
23. The way that they never admit that you hurt them
24. The way that they try not to cry when they are afraid that they are losing you
25. The way that they think that they are your big protector, even though you
think that you are theirs
26. The way that they say I miss you, even though they hate to admit it
27. The way that you miss everything about them when they are gone
28. The way that they remember your special moments, or aniversaries when
you think that they forgot
29. The way that they apologize when they do forget
30. The way that they comfort you when you have a bad day
31. The way that you can’t wait to get home and tell them all about your day
32. The way that they write you love letters even if they think that it is uncool
33. How they would rather be with you then their friends sometime
34. How you want to hug them even though they are all sweaty
35. Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that
you would die without them… it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever
they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in
the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things
without a trace of sound, you know that your own life is inevitabley comsumed
within the rhythimic beatings of his heart. We love them for a million reasons,
No paper would do it justice. It is a thing a feeling, that is only felt.

WELL here’s a few reasons why guys like girls

1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. the ease in which they fit into our arms
5. the way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worth
while
8. because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
9. the way they look good no matter what they wear
10. the way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you
think she’s the most beautiful thing on this earth
11. How cute they are when they argue
12. the way her hand always finds yours
13. the way they smile
14. the way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a
big fight
15. the way she says “lets not fight anymore” even though you know that an
hour later….
16. the way they kiss when you do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when you say “I love you’
18. actually… just the way they kiss you…
19. the way they fall into your arms when they cry
20. then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22. then the way apologize when it does hurt ..(even though we don’t admit it!)
23. the way they say “I miss you”
24. the way you miss them
25. the way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn’t hurt
her anymore…..Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die
or know that you would die without them… it matters not. Because once in your
life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you
look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million
things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable
consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart. We love them for a
million reasons, No paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of
the heart. A feeling. Only felt.

=乱完=

[分享] 15句很有意思的話

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。

8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小 姐時懂得珍惜。

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.

在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。

[分享] 朋友

一个普通的朋友未曾看过你哭泣
一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿尽

一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏
一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯录上

一个普通的朋友回带葡萄酒参加你的派对
一个真正的朋友会早点到帮你准备,并且为你打扫晚些走

一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打电话来
一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打电话来

一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰
一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰

一个普通的朋友在拜访时,会像一个客人一样
一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西吃

一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已结束
一个真正的朋友明白,当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊

一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他
一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身边

A friend drops their plans when you are in trouble
shares joy in you accomplishment,
feels sad when you are in pain.

A friend encourages your dreams and offers advice
but when you don't follow it,
they still respect and love you.


很高兴认识你 =)

=乱完=

鹦鹉，老鹰，和猎人

刚刚看到一篇很有意思的寓言故事
分享下 =)

以前，有一个猎人，养了一只鹦鹉和一只老鹰。

每天，猎人都会带着鹦鹉和老鹰打猎。
老鹰会飞到高空搜寻猎物，找到猎物后，会引导猎人打猎物。
打到猎物后，鹦鹉会在旁边喝彩，恭喜猎人。

每天，打到猎物后，猎人会带着鹦鹉和老鹰，下山，拿到市场卖。
鹦鹉会站在猎人的左肩膀，老鹰站在猎人的右肩膀，一起下山。

有一天，猎人打到猎物，照样下山，要拿到市场卖。
下山途中，不小心踩到石头，跌倒，鹦鹉和老鹰急忙飞走，但老鹰体积大，飞走时不小心爪子刮到猎人的脸，把猎人的脸刮了很长的一个痕迹，流血了。
猎人有点生气，但也没怪老鹰。因为不是老鹰的错。

来到市场，很多人在看他，为什么他的脸会有疤痕，流血。
猎人开始很生气，但也不能做什么。

这时鹦鹉说“你看都是老鹰的错，他们才这样看你”
猎人更生气了，这时鹦鹉又说“我看你还是把老鹰卖了吧，免得他以后再刮伤你的脸”。“平时他也整天在飞，都没帮你什么。都是我在帮你的。”，”你都不需要他“。
猎人一气之下，真的把老鹰卖了。

隔天，猎人和鹦鹉一起打猎，可是没有了老鹰的引导，一直打不到猎物。
接下来的日子，猎人的生活很贫苦，也没有钱养鹦鹉。不久冬天到了，鹦鹉也饿到冻死了。

故事的寓意：
你是老鹰，鹦鹉，还是猎人？

有时我们是猎人： 生气时，做了错的决定。
有时我们是老鹰： 被误会，被误解，却不能解释。
有时我们是鹦鹉： 没看到大局，只看到自己的观点。

更多猎人：做了错的决定，还不知道，不懂得翻身。
更多鹦鹉：都很会附和，煽动，发泄

=乱完=

一篇值得花3分钟阅读的文章

曾经你那么爱过

孩子，我看出来，你爱上他了。

和他在一起的时候，你总是会趁大家不注意的时候，偷偷的瞄他，而平时，你又会装作若无其事地，对他不理不睬。我知道，你这样做是因为你是一个会害羞的孩子，我看得到你红红的脸，听得到你砰砰的心跳。

那天晚上，你急着回去上网和他聊天，把暖水瓶都踢碎了，对吧。

他夸你是个可爱的女孩，你开心极了，一连几个星期，都像只快乐的小麻雀，笑个不停，说个不停。

你知道他喜欢音乐，便搜罗了好多好听的歌，传给他听。

可是他说，这些歌不好听啊。你嘟嘟嘴，但依然开心地笑着说，没关系，下次我再找好听的歌给你。

可是他却不再让你传歌给他了。你每次上网，满怀期待地敲下：你在吗？总是无人回应。你知道，他在的，只是不想理你。

是的孩子，我也知道。

你怕他烦你，因此后来你每次上线，都是隐身。悄悄地看他在不在。如果他的头像是亮，你就会满心欢喜地做自己的事情，四处找好听的歌听，或许你没事情可 做，只是拿一本书在旁边看。只要他的头像是亮的，你就会觉得是他在你身边，你就会开心地，温柔地笑着，直到他的头像暗下去，你才恋恋不舍地关上电脑。

“他陪了我好久呢！”你在日记本上开心地写下。

后来，要考试了。他成绩不好，你的成绩也不是很好，但你还是想挤出更多时间来帮他。

孩子，你很善良，我知道。可这次你帮他，是因为你爱他。

可他只是看着你笑笑，说，谢谢，不用了。

我看到你使劲睁大眼睛，也笑着说，好啊，没关系的，等你需要帮助的时候再来找我。

孩子，我知道，你把眼睛睁得大大的，是为了不让眼泪流下来。

后来，你听说，他要搬走了。

你终于流出泪来。你把头埋到枕头里，大声地哭着。你问我，为什么会这样呢，为什么那么爱，却依然这个样子？

很抱歉，孩子，我不能告诉你答案。总有一天，你会自己慢慢明白的。

你泪眼朦胧地看着我，说：请你把他带走好么，让我再也看不到他，想不起他，听不到他的声音，让我再也不要，不要这么痛了。

很抱歉，孩子，我带不走他。没人能把他带走，他在你心里。孩子，你明白么，其实你根本舍不得让他走出你的心，让你自己忘掉他。

慢慢地，你的眼睛不再似前几日那么红肿了，你开始给他写信，写了好多，好长，但你从来没有寄出去。你要到了他的联系方式，偶尔会发信息给他，问他最近过得好吗。你不敢给他打电话，还是怕他烦你。你依然会哭，但只是安静地，一个人流泪。

孩子，我看到你这样，我心里也很难过。但是我不能帮你，有些痛，总是要一个人承担的。等它过去了，你就会长大一些，懂得点什么，学到点什么。

你在生活，也依然在爱他。你将你的网名加进了他的名字，密码改成了他的生日；你研究他的星座，看他是什么样的性格，喜欢什么样的女孩子；你逛街的时 候，会留心男孩子们的服装专柜，你很认真地帮他挑衣服，想着他应该穿什么样的颜色，什么样的款式比较好看；你学习他家乡的方言，一字一句，很认真地学着， 越来越觉得很好听。你开始试着学炒菜做饭，希望有一天，能做满一桌子香喷喷的饭菜给他吃……

孩子，我知道，做这些，都让你很开心。朋友们说你这样何苦，可是你却觉得自己是天底下最幸福的人。是的，孩子，用心的爱一个人，是一件很幸福的事。

生活依然在继续，慢慢地，你又开始像以前一样了。孩子，他说的没错，你真是一个可爱的女孩。有时，你会拿起以前同学们合影的照片看，看着他的位置，端 详好久；有时，你会听以前传给他的歌，想着，他现在是不是也在听这首歌呢？你在粉红的纸上写下，我昨天梦到你了，你还好吗。然后微笑着，把纸叠起来，放到 抽屉里。

你不再哭，你的生活，开始恢复从前，安静，平缓，幸福。

孩子，是时候了。终于，有一天，在你睡着了的时候，我看到你的心扉是敞开的，便将他从你的怀里，拿走了。

后来，你翻照片时，突然想到他。你抬起头问我，是你将他带走了，是吗？

我微笑着摇摇头：孩子，不是我将他带走了，是你自己舍得放开他，放他走出你的心了。是的，你还会想起他，想起你们以前的事情，但你只会幸福的微笑着，叹息着。是的孩子，你已经长大了。

孩子，没错，我就是时间。